Wednesday, December 31, 2008

1st week on Palawan


We arrived on Palawan on December 26, 2008. This first week has been very eventful and exciting. We have had an opportunity to visit all of the missionaries that are serving on the island, all of the chapels & Missionary apartments except one, and we have met most of the District & Branch leaders. As well as well as being able to visit most of the tourist attractions on the Palawan. We also had a quick tour of what will be our little home for the next eighteen months. It will be hard to try to cover all of the events and all of the things that we have felt this week, but we will at least give you a brief overview.

We arrived with President & Sister Howard, Sister Howards sister Beckie & President & Sister Lesuer. (President & Sister Lesuer are the Missionary Couple that we will be replacing on Palawan) It has been great to have all of them with us. The airport was kinda what we had expected, very small, we deplaned outside and walked to the little outdoor baggage area, it was covered with a metal roof and had a small baggage belt where they unloaded our bags, one of the church members works there, he helped us get all of our bags, and President Lesuer had made arrangements for a Jeepney to pick us up and take us to the Hotel, where we checked in, then walked across the street to the church where the twenty missionaries serving on the island were attending their District Meetings. The church is very nice and clean(we will send you pictures when we figure out how to attach them) We spent a very enjoyable afternoon with the missionaries, the spirit is so strong whenever we are around them.

On Saturday we visited some of the tourist attractions around Puerto Princesa. The city seems much smaller than we had expected. There are only a very few two or three story buildings, and only a few paved streets. The buildings and homes are mostly made out of bamboo, or old sheet metal, some cinder block, but mostly very old. There are a few cars, but mostly Tricycles, bikes and Jeepneys. We also had a quick tour of our future home. It is smaller than we thought, but nice, the washer & dryer is outside, the bedroom has a queen size bed that takes up most of the room, it has a closet, but you can only open the doors part way, It has hot water in the shower, but not in the kitchen, we will need to heat any water other than the shower on the stove. We will be moving into the home on January 1st. They say that Palawan is the Resort Island, but it is nothing like we would think of as a resort in the States. To get to what they refer to as a resort, you need to drive over the roughest roads that you can imagine, then very few of the beaches are sandy or developed, but the view is incredible.

On Sunday we drove 2 1/2 hours each way to Roxas for church, this was very special, they treated us like Royalty, one of the sisters made a corsage for each of us, they all treated us like we were Royalty. The spirit is so strong, the people are so humble and grateful for the gospel, families mean so much to them. The Branch President asked us and President & Sister Lesure to speak, it was mainly an opportunity for the Lesuer's to say good bye, and us to introduce ourselves. The ride up and back was absolutely beautiful.

Monday, President & Sister Howard took their first day off since they here arrived last July (the first time he has been outside without a tie on). All of us went out to the Under Ground River, it was incredible, but the ride to get there would jar your insides loose. It took us about 2 1/2 hours to get there, then we took small six man boats out into the South China Sea, around a point then back to the beach where we walked on a nice trail through the jungle. We were able to see many monkeys along the way and at the beach at the other end of the trail. There we had to wait for about two hours for some other boats that took us under the mountain. This is the longest underground river in the world and in places the ceiling is more than 200 feet high. It will be listed in the next 7 natural wonders of the world. Then the 2 1/2 hours back to the hotel. That night President Howard set Elder Golding apart as the 2nd Counselor in the Philippines Manila Mission Presidency, and Sister Golding as his Assistant and Companion. We never realized the magnitude or responsibility of these callings. President Golding will be presiding at any and all meetings that they attend on the Island, unless President Howard or one of the General Authorities are visiting. We will be responsible for the training of the District & Branch leaders in the two districts and nine branches. These leaders are wonderful and dedicated, but many of them have only been members for a short time. One of the District Presidents has only been a member for three years, but doing a great job. Then the young missionaries, what a wonderful privilege it is to be able to work with and associate with them. it will be a treat to get to know them better.

Tuesday: President & Sister Howard went back to Manila, we went with the Lesuers down to the Northern Districts. Again it is so beautiful that you can't even imagine how pretty it is. There is not a spot anywhere on the island, except where they have cleared to build a house or a road that is not thick with green trees and plants, wild banana trees, coconut trees, palm trees, green rice fields, but the people are so poor. Most houses are build out of bamboo, a few with old cinder block. They work the rice fields with tamed Carabows? (not sure of the spelling) they are in the water buffalo family. They pull their bamboo sleds that they use to haul what ever need to be moved. They just live off from the land, this area is a moneyless society, no one has money, they grow or trade for what they need. Many of the members there are strong, but many are too far away from the church to walk and there is no other way to get there. The missionaries could baptize many but if they did they would not be able to stay active, so they are not allowed to teach or baptize them.

Tuesday night we stayed at this incredibly beautiful place, way back in the jungle there is this clean well kept resort and you can't believe the natural beauty of this place. Once a year the owner invites all the people from the area to come and spend the day, Tuesday was the day, it was something to see. We will need to go down to that end of the island at least every other moth, more often if we can. On the way home Wednesday we visited some of the missionaries, and Branch Presidents. It was a great two days, but again the roads were so bad, we blew a tire out on the van, this is the third tire they have blown out since they received the new van in July.

We spent New Years Eve back at the hotel in Puerto Princesia, and then moved into our new home today. It is small, but it will be great. It is in a gated area that they are starting to develop. There are only five homes in the development, but they have sold several lots and it looks like there will eventually be 40 to 50 homes in the development. We have five cows, that graze around our house, some chickens & roosters. Mom is trying to adjust to the house and area, but see is doing great.

We hope all of you have a great New Year.
We love you,
Dad & Mom (President & Sister Golding)

Wednesday, December 24, 2008

Christmas Day

I keep forgetting to add a title to a new entry on the blog. It is now almost noon on Christmas Day here in Manila. When I wrote earlier I didn't say anything about the people and the traffic. The population of metro Manila is over 14 million people, there are people everywhere, you can't believe how crowded the streets are and the roads and the way they drive is crazy. There are a lot of cars, but most of the people ride on either a Jeapney, or a tricycle, or just on a motor bike, a Jeapney is a jeep with a long bed in back with two wood benches along each side. People sit on the benches, stand up on a platform on the back, ride on the front & back bumpers, or sit on the roof, or stack all kinds of things on the roof, then sit on top of what ever it it. The tricycle is a motor bike with a side car attached to it, you can't believe how many people they can get in a two seat side car. On the motor bikes it's not unusual to see three or four people on the same bike, could be a man driving with a woman and a little baby riding on back. There are no traffic controls like we would know them, most of the streets do not have marked lanes, you just go where ever you can find room. The stops signs and red lights(the few you see) really don't mean stop, it could only be a suggestion. You could be driving down a highway that is designed to have two lanes going each direction, but if there is too much traffic going one direction they will just move over to the other side. Sometimes you will have six un-marked lanes of traffic, then without any warning it will narrow down to two un-marked lanes of traffic People walk up and down and through the traffic wherever they want to, or need to go. Little kids (as well as adults) will be walking out in the middle of the street tapping on the car windows begging for what ever they can get. I don't even know how to describe the living conditions as well as places of business. We could never pull over long enough to take pictures, but we will as we can.

In the Philippines there are over 7,000 islands (most of them have very few people on them) but if you could pull all of the land mass of all 7,000 islands together together they would be about the size of the state of Nevada, and the population is over 94 million. We leave for the Island of Palawan tomorrow, we are told that will be a whole different world. Not so busy, but more like Manila was 40- 50 years ago.

We again want to wish you a very merry Christmas, wish we could give you a hug.

Love all of you,
Dad & Mom (Elder & Sister Golding)

Christmas Morning

It is now Christmas morning in the Philippines, we are at the Mission Home in Manila. The couple Missionaries that we will be replacing in Palawan are here along with President and Sister Howard & Sister Howard's sister. We were scheduled to have a staff meeting at the mission office this morning, but President Howard invited all of them to dinner this evening so we will have the staff meeting here at the Mission Home this morning, President Howard will conduct his interviews with each, then we will have the afternoon to visit and get to know each other better. and have dinner together.
This last week has been very exciting, we arrived in Manila, Philippines Sunday at 5:15 am, it took us until about 7:00 am to get our bags and clear customs. President & Sister Howard were there to meet us, we went to the Mission home, had about 1/2 hour to unload our bags and change cloths, then we were off to some interviews that the President had, then we went back to the Mission Home grabbed a sandwich to eat on the way to one of the Branches for church. After church we dropped mom & Sister Howard off at the Mission Home and went to a meeting with one of the Stake Presidencies. I can't remember for sure now when we arrived back at the Mission Home but it was around 9:00 pm. I think keeping us that busy really helped us avoid a lot of the jet lag. Monday morning Two of the office missionaries picked us up and helped us get our Philippines Drivers License (that was really an experience that we will never forget). We also opened a bank account, so that the church could deposit the money that the young missionaries will need for their living & personal expenses each month. Usually it would go directly to the missionaries but most of the ones on Palawan would not have access to a bank, so they will send it to us and we will get it to the missionaries. Tuesday President Howard & I left at 6:15 am to go to one of the Zones for District Meetings. The President had a personal 15 minute interview with all 24 missionaries, while I sat in on the District & Zone training. (the jet lag really caught up with me that day, as we sat through about eight hours of meetings) I was so impressed with all of these young men and young women, even though I was tired it was a great experience. On Wednesday it was the same thing all over again, off at 6:15 to a different Zone & District meetings. Although I really enjoyed Tuesdays meetings Wednesdays were were really great, I was not so tired, so I got more involved in the discussions and spent more time visiting with the young missionaries. of the 168 Missionaries in the Philippine Manila Mission 86% of them are from one of the Philippine Islands. The combination of missionaries from the USA & Canada and the Philippines missionaries is really powerful, the love they show for one an other is something to see and feel.

We want to wish all of you a Very Merry Christmas, wish we could be with you or at least talk to you, but we will be off to Palawan in the Morning, when it will be Christmas there. Our plane leaves at 7;00 am so I believe we will need to leave the Mission Home at 4:00 am. Mom said to be sure and give our little ones and each other a hug for us.

We love you,
Mom & Dad (Elder & Sister Golding)

Sunday, December 7, 2008

Entering the MTC....................


On Monday, December 8th Kathy and Steve drove us to the MTC:


Note from Kathy to our family:

Hi Family: Okay Dad and Mom, Grandpa & Grandma are in the mission home! I told them I would e-mail everyone and let them know. Steve and I went down with them this morning, they took them into a room and we waited outside for them it took about twenty minutes, when they were in their Mom said they went over their immunization etc. After that we hurried to the book store and picked up their packet with their room key, they were told to hurry and put their luggage in their room and unpack later after that they had 15 minutes to get something to eat and be at their first meeting that would go from 1:00-3:30 pm. So we quickly said our good-byes! We did snap a quick picture that I am including. Dad did mention that except for Tuesday and Sunday evenings after 5:00 p.m. it looked like their schedule was their own so maybe we will hear from them, we will just wait and see! Steve and I laughed this morning, Dad came in from the garage and I said "Dad I think you might want to keep an eye on Mom, you may have a Run Away Bride!" Mom was putting something in a drawer and saying out loud "okay we want to do this mumble mumble mumble" I just laughed and said "Mom do you feel like running!" We just laughed.Also I wanted to tell you that when we pulled up to the building that they were staying at Dad said "Look what the name of this building is". It is called the Jacob Hamblin building,which is part of Dads family, so we thought that was neat. Okay what else, oh when we walked in the door was opened to their room, Mom said "oh they didn't make our bed", she was right the linens were just neatly folded on the bed! Dad also mentioned that 33 other couples checked in today, they said that was a small amount last week their were 75 couples, most likely because of the Holidays ahead. Well I think that is it, I am so excited for them, this is something they are really excited to share together. I hope these e-mail address's are right! I love you all so much! Kathy, Mom etc.

Monday, December 1, 2008

Las Vegas Fairwell, Thanksgiving and on to the MTC

This past few weeks have been great. We said goodbye to our Ward Family in Las Vegas on November 23, 2008. This was very emotional, but a lot of fun, we really felt the spirit there, and we love our Ward Family. Jack, Deanne & Austin, Ryan, Triana & Avia, Rae & Bill, Debbie and Denise met us in Las Vegas that weekend and we had a great time and and shared some emotional goodbyes.


We were able to be with Steve & Kathy and their family for thanksgiving, there were thirty (30) in all. Bart was able to come from Denver and spend a few days, it was good to see and spend some time with him. Steve and Kathy have such a wonderful family and it was great to be with them.


We just wanted to share how excited we are to having an opportunity to go on this mission and spend the next eighteen months serving our Heavenly Father. We had planned to go a couple of years ago, but the timing just didn't seem right. Then a few months ago we received an email from President Howard of the Philippines Manila Mission asking us if we would be willing to serve with him & his wife in the Philippines Mission to serve on the Island of Palawan. At first it was a hard decision because we loved the part time mission that we were serving in the LDS Family Services Addiction Recovery Program and was not sure if we were ready to give that up, but as we prayed about it, we really got excited about it. From the time we met with Bishop Buck and President Parker we couldn't wait. When President Parker sent our application to Salt Lake he indicated that President Howard had requested that we serve in the Philippines Manila Mission and he would support that, however we would be willing to serve anywhere that we were needed. At first that was a little scary, but as we prayed about it we were really grateful that he had included that we would be willing to serve anywhere, as we really wanted to know if that is what the Lord wanted us to do. We still were hoping that we would be able to go to the Philippines but we were ready to go anywhere we were needed. We felt good about that, but then could not wait until we received our calling. On Tuesday we received a call from President Parker indicating that our call had been issued in Salt Lake City and we should receive our letter indicating where we would be going on Thursday. We called Jack, Kathy, Brad & Bart to let them know. Kathy being Kathy was so excited that she tried to make arrangements to fly to Las Vegas to be there when we opened our letter, but couldn't make the connections at that late date. We were so excited that it was hard to wait until Thursday, when the mail man came on Thursday, I hurried out to the mail box to get our letter and it wasn't there. When I went in the house and told Shirley she didn't believe me, she thought I was just kidding her. When I finely convinced her that the letter really didn't come she insisted that I find the mail man, as she was sure that if President Parker said it would be there on Thursday that it would be there on Thursday, and that the letter must still be in the mail truck. When I found the mail man, he assured me that the letter wasn't there but it would probably be there the next day. We called everyone and told them that it wasn't there, that's when Kathy told us how bad she wanted to be there when we opened our letter. We told her that we would make sure we called her and had her on the phone with us before we opened the letter. The letter came on Friday and after we had called Kathy, we opened our letter. When we read the first line that said you have ben called to serve in the Philippines Mission, tears came to my eyes as I thought about my Dad, and how as a young man I had promised him many times that I would serve an honorable mission. I thought, I might be fifty years late, but I am finely going to keep that promise that I made to him. We are so excited to be able to be able to work with the young missionaries and to find ways that we can be of service to the people on the Island of Palawan. To be able to spend all day, every day serving our Heavenly Father.


We have now completed our first week at the MTC, it has been great, the schedule has been a little bit different that we first expected, but we have loved it. We start our day at 6:30 am, get our assignments together and have breakfast, then to the class room by 8:oo am. We have a break for lunch and a break for dinner, then back to the class room until 8:00 pm. We then study for the next two hours to prepare for the next day. So much for having free time after 5:00 pm each day. The reason for the longer day is we had an opportunity to go to a language class from 6: to 8:00 pm each day to learn what we can about speaking tagalog. The young lady that is teaching us served her mission in the Philippines Manila mission, she just returned home last December. Each day we need to teach a lesson to an investigator, or a new member. On Friday we taught a lady from the Provo area, when her husband picked her up after the meeting, he said that he only knew one Golding, his Grand daughter had married a Golding from Temecula, CA. He would be my Uncle Theo and Aunt Betty's grandson. Today is Saturday, this is the day that we can do our laundry, clean our room and do any other personal things that we need to do. It has been snowing all afternoon and is cold. Mom can't wait until we get to the Philippines and the "hot" weather. We received our travel schedule, we will be leaving Salt lake at 5:00 pm Friday and will fly to LA, then we will leave LA at 9:00 pm and fly non stop to Manila. We will arrive in Manila at 6:00 am Sunday.( with the time change that will be about seventeen hours)


We are grateful for all your prayers and love each of you,
Elder & Sister Golding (Dad & Mom)